I’m not a fan of the phrase “be authentic.”
It sounds too clinical.
Can’t we just say “be yourself.”
That’s exactly how Millie Garfield approaches her blog, which has served the 85-year-old blogger well.
Millie was kind enough to talk with me about her writing. I published the first half of the interview yesterday; here’s the second half of the conversation:
Q: I noticed that you typically post once per week. Do you have a routine?
A: My routine is to write for the blog on Sunday. Sometimes I write on Saturday. Then, Steve [son] will take the post and make it look good with formatting and photos.
Q: So Steve is an integral part of the process?
A: Yes, one of the best things about blogging is it’s something I do with my son.
Side note: Steve Garfield is a nationally known video blogger and author of “Get Seen: Online Video Secrets to Building Your Business.”
Q: What do you think of Twitter?
A: I don’t use Twitter a lot. Steve does a lot of tweeting. I enjoy reading his tweets so I know where he is and what he’s doing. A few months ago I tweeted about “Mad Men.”
Q: Is there a post that you’re particularly proud of?
A: “My Trip from 65 to 81.”
I just reread it – That one took more thought and time than any other post I ever made. I really told it just the way it was.
Q: You often write about things people can relate to, like hospital food.
A: That’s how I look at things. That food was horrible … but I’m not a complainer. I figured out ways to survive like ordering two entrees which increased the likelihood of getting something decent.
Q: What do you enjoy about blogging? Is it the opportunity to express yourself?
A: That’s true.
When I’m writing no one interrupts me. I can get out what’s on my mind.
When I’m talking with someone, sometimes that person can start talking before I’m finished.
But blogging is more than writing.
Q: What do you mean?
A: It can be a form of storytelling to share who you are with your children and grandchildren.
My mother or father didn’t share much about their youth.
And I didn’t ask questions.
Before they were parents they had a life.
But I don’t know much about that life.
My kid sure knows about his mom’s past.
Q: Any closing thoughts we didn’t touch on through the questions?
A: More seniors should blog. Don’t be afraid you’re going to break something. There’s nothing to break.
Like I already mentioned, blogging enriches my life.
Here’s one last thing.
I wanted to print all of my posts but my printer wasn’t working. Steve said he would make copies with his printer. Every so often I would ask him about it. I didn’t want to push. Then my birthday arrived and he gave me one of the best gifts I’ve ever received –
All of my posts put together as a hardcopy book called “My Mom’s Blog.”
It had me in tears.
Photos courtesy of Steve Garfield.